Monday, July 06, 2009

Remembering Rusty


Last Friday, July 3, my Better Half and I lost one of our most loyal feline friends. Rusty left us early that morning. We don't know exactly how old he was, but my best guess was around 10 years old. He adopted us about six years ago, when he showed up on my front porch. You could tell that he had a rough start to life. He was covered in scars from fighting with the neighborhood dogs. But, even with his fighting background, he always had a laid back style and a trusting soul. He never knew a stranger. He always met everyone at the door (whether he knew you, or not) with a hearty meow, as if to say, "welcome to our home". He was also my personal recliner buddy. Every time I kicked back in the recliner, he would jump up in the chair with me and curl up for a nice nap. Yes, he became overweight when he moved in and became an indoor cat, but I always told Better Half he wasn't just fat. He was fat 'n' happy ... and I truly think he was.

He took the kittens in, when they came along, and treated them like his own children. He looked after them and "corrected" them when they needed it, but he never acted out of anger toward them. Most of all, he taught them that it was okay to trust us (humans). I will never forget when the kittens first showed up, Better Half was trying to coax them into the house, but they wouldn't let her get too close to them. Rusty slipped out the door and disappeared into the bushes where they had been hiding. A little while later, here came Rusty with four kittens in tow right behind him. He led them right to the porch, and soon after that, Better Half was able to bring them in. Even after they grew up, they continued to look at him as a father figure. When Rusty got up to go somewhere, they all got up and followed him.

There are so many funny stories and good times ... fond memories that will live on forever. Rusty, you will be missed by all of us. We will never forget you.

-VoR-

4 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

OH! VoR! thank you for posting the stories...

i know people think i'm silly for believing this, but... i really do believe that our animal friends are waiting for us on the other side. was it will rogers who asked what would heaven be without them?

i'm so sorry i'm just now seeing this. again. thanks for telling the stories... what a wonderful cat! i'm so glad you and Better Half got to know him!

July 6, 2009 at 10:44 PM  
Blogger Voice of Reason said...

Hey Kelly,

Thank you so much for the kind words! As animal people, we all know that the day will come when we have to bury our companions, but it doesn't make it any easier when that day arrives. I, too, believe that he is waiting on the other side.

It has been a very sad week. It seems strange for him not to be waiting by the front door when we open it. Even after he got so weak, he still found the energy to meet us when we arrived. Every time I sit down in the recliner, I still halfway expect to see him come running around the corner to jump up in my lap. Better Half always used to call him "daddy's boy" because he spent most of his time in my lap. He also had a favorite chair that he used to love sharing with me on the back porch. He loved long naps in the sunshine.

The younger ones have had Rusty to look up to for their entire lives, and now he's gone. They are having a difficult time adjusting to his absence, especially Harley. She used to follow him around like a shadow. They all spend a lot of their time in hiding now. When they do come out, the go throughout the house as if they are looking for him. Harley wasn't eating much and Yoda was throwing up about every time he ate, but things are finally starting to improve, thank goodness. It has been sad to watch.

We will miss him soooo much.

July 7, 2009 at 9:14 AM  
Blogger Machinist said...

I am sorry to just be seeing this, my friend. I know your loss.

To lose such a friend leaves a pain filled hole in our lives and our souls that never quite heals right, but you gave many years of security, comfort, happiness and love to a cat that had not known that before. He obviously appreciated it and loved you for it. What more can you give another?

Warmest thoughts to you.

August 21, 2009 at 12:45 AM  
Blogger Voice of Reason said...

Hey Mac,

Thank you for stopping by and thanks for the kind thoughts. It is, indeed, painful to lose a close companion. I miss him dearly. He is gone, but he will never be forgotten.

The other cats have finally settled into life without their "big brother". Things are, for the most part, back to normal. What is amazing is that each of the others are showing behaviors that Rusty used to have. For example, Socks meets us at the door every day now, and Spot has become a lap cat. I guess they are all trying to do their part to get things back to what they see as "normal".

-VoR-

August 25, 2009 at 12:46 PM  

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